Choosing and Refusing

Hey there,

last night I had a tough experience that  brought me into deep thinking, and one of the things that bothered my mind was the power of our choices.

Everyone of us have been given equal freedom to make choices for his life. cause we really become happy when we decide to be responsible for our lives, when we decide to take our lives in hands and know what we want.

But the problem is not really making the choice, the problem is making the choice and want to hold on the old habit at the same time, not really letting go of what we are supposed to leave. sometimes we want to settle in the middle side, but we end up loosing both sides. Look, you can't mix faith with fear or trust with doubt, you need to choose one and refuse the other.

It's obvious that we can't have all in life, and one of my friends (Leni) justified it in saying that even us we are not all, so wanting to have all would be kind of ironic, so when you find something you want into someone and decide to choose it, please refuse any other thing from others, cause wanting to take one thing from one person and still you want another one from a different person, you won't play that game for a long time. (here I want specifically to talk to those who are dating and are still confused in what they really want) but this can still work in many other ares in this life.

The refusing won't be of a small thing, or something that doesn't really matter in your life, for Moses it was as big as leaving the throne, refusing to be a Pharaoh and choosing to lead the Israelite in the dessert, I don't know what is the case for you, but if there's one, be in your spiritual life, your relationship, your work... name them, you just need to take a side!

In choosing a happy relationship you may need to refuse to attend to your ego and selfishness, in choosing to be a happy person you may need to refuse to be led by your little emotions...
it's up to you to figure out what are the things you need to choose and what you need to refuse to enjoy the goodness of life.

Am grateful for the lessons I get to learn in life, even though the process is sometimes ugly.
But I hope it helps you make better decisions and spares you from playing the middle side game!

With Love,

Tasha