Friday 21 June 2013

The Heart Behind the Sarcastic Action of Celebrating A Refugee Day

Yesterday on 20th of June it was again the Refugee Day, which has been being celebrated for the last 13 years,  and in Rwanda it was celebrated in Kigeme Camp in the southern Province, a camp which hosts more than 17,000 of Congolese refugees who fled insecurity in the North Kivu.

 So when we got there my first question was, what do we have to celebrate about refugees? not that they are cast out but what do we really celebrate? I was really furious seeing these little children living miserably and seeing many cars with rich and politician  people coming to celebrate...
 I had to ask, otherwise I was going to go back with a bad heart, then I was told  that it was to show these people that they are not forgotten, that their problems are known and being worked on, to give them hope and support that they will not stay refugees forever...
 And one of the things which finally made me happy, is the speech form one of the refugee who spoke on their behalf... she was grateful and able to see the good things that happened to them even though they are refugees, she said that even though they lost their home, they didn't lose their minds, they can work and survive and restore their lives... she had hope and dreams and she was sure that the life they are living will not be permanent.

 Their kids go to school even though they look this duty but those of school going age are enrolled, and in the Event there was also the official opening of 62 classroom built their to provide education for them.
I finally had a good time with the kids and posed with them, talked with them and left  :-(

There's always things to be grateful for, I was so amazed with the attitude of gratitude these people have... they have at least got a place to stay... and they are grateful about it even though they are refugees.

Today stop a little bit, and say thank you for at least 5 things in your life.

Have a grateful Weekend!

With Love,

Tasha 

Tuesday 18 June 2013

My Glittering Chocolates!

OMG,
Am starting to believe in some of the statements like " All that glitters is not gold"

Am sure at looking at this box of chocolate your mouth starts watering as it did for me! I even took sometimes before opening them and start eating... but trust me when I ate them... I don't know how to explain the disappointment (I hope the person who gave them to me will not read this post) looool, but yeah, when he asked me how are the chocolates, I was courageous enough to be honest and told him that they don't taste as good as they look. 
Well, in life you'll meet many people and things that will entirely catch your attention and sweep you off your feet, but my dear reader,cool down a little bit, analyse and taste, take some time to know that person,  that business opportunity or any other thing you might be willing to rush for, see if the are really like how they look or sound. it will spare from disappointment and some other ugly experiences.
With Love and Gratitude, 

Tasha

Monday 17 June 2013

Carpe Diem

Last year in January I went back to school a little bit earlier cause I wanted to rest from there since home was  busy than school, so when I got there one day was enough to rest, pouff! a lazy body now! fortunately there were volunteers who were building class rooms at school, so I decided to join them in the building, good enough there were some other girls which made the work full of fun!

One of the girls we were working together had a tattoo on her wrist written "Carpe Diem" it caught my attention and my curiosity didn't spare me from asking her what it means and why she had it, she told me that it means "Seize the Day", I was like WOW

Carpe Diem has acquired a wrong interpretation from the ancient times when  it was made famous by the general public; and now its interpreted as "Enjoy the present Day", calling for indulging in the  pleasure in the idea that the future is uncertain and that everything will disappear, inciting for pleasure without considering any values and disciplines of life. That idea is completely opposite to the original text, which encourages to exhaust the day but in the right way.

Tasha what are you trying to say here? the thought is this, we tend to take our chances and opportunities for granted as if they will last forever, we use our todays as if they'll always comeback, and we don't seize them, we don't give our best to what we got.

Look, there's a funny observation I've made in my community; people don't eat fruits or other wholesome meals when they are healthy and in normal conditions, but wait when they get sick, they eat like no man's business! but what so they wait to get sick to do what they were supposed to do even to prevent the getting sick? this is what we always do even in our work, relationships, health... why do we have to wait to lose a friend so that we can start calling again and apologizing while if we had done that before we wouldn't need to get that far? why do we wait to get a warning letter from our bosses so that we can start performing well and being devoted to our work? why do we have to wait for our relationship to break so that we can start caring and doing the things we were supposed to do to prevent the breaking?

Sometimes we get a second chance, sometimes the harm done is too big to be fixed... but all we got to learn is to seize the day, be faithful and honest to your work, give your best in your studies, treat well your friends and love them on a daily basis, give, live, love and care in your relationship... be grateful to what is in your life therefore you'll know to cherish them and make the best of them!


Carpe Diem!

Tasha